Reasons for delay in marriage and remedies

The 7th house mainly refers to marriage, wife or husband and marital happiness. So any afflictions to this house or it’s lord cause delay in marriage and even sometimes denial.

If 7th house under influence of Mars by aspect or placement it give rise to manglik or kuja dosha. When Mars is placed in 1st, 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th and 12th house from Lagna or Rashi i.e. Chandra Lagnaone is said to be a manglik, but some astrologer consider this position of Mars from moon  and from Venus too.

Not only mars negative influence only cause affliction to 7th house but other aspect and placement of other natural malefic planets like Saturn, Rahu, Ketu and Sun also equally exert same negative results. Placement of 7th lord also determines the married life if lord of 7th house is in dushtana’s i.e. 6, 8 or 12th it also hampers one’s married life. Karkas of 7th house in males which is Venus and in case of females is Jupiter also plays significant role in judging the married life.

If karka of a house is placed in that house then it destroys the affects of that house, so when Venus is placed in 7th house of a male it is harmful for married life and if Jupiter which is kark of marriage in the case of females is placed in the said house then it cause obstructions in marriage and problems in married life.
There are few general combinations which cause delays in marriage which are mentioned below:

1) If Saturn is either in 1st, 3rd, 5th,7th , 10th from Lagna or Moon sign and if Saturn does not have beneficial houses.

2) A malefic in the 7th house, Saturn, or even Mars in own sign delays marriage.

3) If Mars and Venus combine in 5th , 7th or 9th house, but receive evil aspect from Jupiter.

4) If the 7th lord and Jupiter are aspected by Saturn.

5) Malefics in either side of 7th house also cause delays in marriage in this case 7th house comes under papkirti yoga.

6) If Lagna, Sun and Moon are under malefic aspects.

7) When 7th lord is posited in 6th, 2nd and 12th from 7th house, girl’s marriage is delayed. This is a powerful yoga for delayed marriage and is further strengthened when malefic associates with 7th lord or in the 7th house.

8) Rahu and Venus in Lagna or in 7th house or Mars and Sun in the 7th house with other afflictions cause delay in marriage.

9) When Sun, Moon and the 5th lord are in conjunction with or aspected by Saturn.

10) If the 7th lord, Lagna and Venus fall in barren signs viz. Gemini, Leo, Virgo and Sagittarius.

11) Venus conjoins Moon aspected by Mars and Saturn and the 7th house is not aspected by Jupiter or malefic in 1st , 7rh and 12th houses.

12) Saturn in 2nd, Rahu in 9th , 7th lord and a malefic in the 3rd house.
SOME REMEDIAL MEASURES TO OVERCOME DELAYS IN MARRIAGE:-
i) Girls whose marriages are getting delayed should do ‘Gouri Puja’ and repeat the stotram as many times possible before the portrait of goddess Durga Devi.

ii) If Dasha of a particular planet afflicts the 7th house of a native, he/she should propitiate deity to the planet and seek relief.

iii) Girls whose marriage is delayed due to manglik dosha should adopt the remedial measures intended for Propitiating the Goddess for expediting the marriage.

First is the chanting of sri Mangala Chandika Stotra by the girls before five-faced lamp. Second is doing Parvati Swayamvara sloka on every Friday evening before panchamukhi deepam.

Then navagraha yogya should be performed, specially for Mars and it’s lord Bagalamukhi devi. With these Rudravishek should be performed for better result.

iv) Boys who are facing delays in marriage they should worship Goddess lakshmi as she is significator of planet Venus karka for marriage.

v) They should keep fast on Fridays to appease the Planet Venus.

vi) Both boys and girls must take the remedies of responsible planet.

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NAVAGRAHA SHANTI

Remedies for Sun / Surya Graha Shanti

It is believed that Surya has been worshipped since ages to receive the kind blessings of God. Surya is considered as the only visible form of God that can be seen every day. God Surya is regarded as an aspect of Shiva and Vishnu by Shaivites and Vaishnavas respectively. Surya is also known as Surya Narayana. Surya, the Sun God is also acknowledged as one of the eight forms of Lord Shiva (Astamurti). Surya is the lord of excellence and wisdom. Sun is also considered to be the kind of planets. Surya represents soul, will-power, fame, the eyes, general vitality, courage, kingship, father, highly placed persons and authority etc. Let us have a look at the remedies for Surya or Sun related troubles and during the dasa or antardasa of sun:
1. Worship the ruling deity Lord Surya
2. Recite Adyta Hridaya Stotra or Gayatri Mantra every day.
3. Japa of Sun’s moola mantra: “Om hram hreem hroum sah suryaya namah”, 6000 times in 40 days.
4. Recite the Soorya Stotra.
5. Charity: Donate wheat or sugar candy on Sunday.
6. Observe fasts on Sundays.
7. Ritual: Rudrabhishek.
8. Rudraksha: Put on Ekamukhi or 12 mukhi Rudraksha
9. Jadi for Sun: Bel (बेल), Bent (बेंत)
10. Gemstone: Ruby

Remedies for Moon / Chandra Graha Shanti

According to ancient science of Vedic astrology, Moon or Chandra depicts mind and brain, feelings, emotions, sensitivity, softness, imagination, queen and mother. The waxing moon is believed to be benefic, while the waning moon is considered to be malefic. Moon is lord of three nakshatras or lunar mansions: Rohini, Hasta and Shravana. Chandra rules over the sign Karka (Cancer), while he is exalted in Vrishabha (Taurus) and in his fall in Vrishchika (Scorpio). Chandra has the following associations: the color white, the metal silver and the gemstones pearl and moonstone. His element is water, direction is north-west and season is winter. The Food Grain associated with him (One of Nava Dhanyas) is Rice. Let us have a look at remedies for Chandra or Moon related problems and during the Dasa or Antardasa of Moon:

1. Recite Annapurna Stotram.
2. Worship the ruling deity Shiva.
3. Chant Moon’s ‘moola mantra’: Om shram sreem shraum sah chandraya namah, 10,000 times in 40 days.
4. Recite the Chandra stotra.
5. Jadi: Khirni(Khirika) Mool
6. Rudraksha: Wear 2 mukhi Rudraksha.
7. Pooja: Devi pooja.
8. Fasting: On Mondays.
9. Charity: Donate cow’s milk or rice on Monday.
10. Gemstone: Pearl

Remedies for Mars / Mangal Graha Shanti

In Vedic astrology, Mars or Mangal is believed to signify drive and physical energy, self-confidence and ego, strength, anger, impulsiveness, heroism and adventurous nature. Mangal is the ruler of blood, muscles and bone marrow. He is also related with battle, war and soldiers. As per Vedic astrology, Mars is considered as malefic by nature. “Mangal Dosha” is known as very dreaded concept of astrology. It asserts if a person having Mangal Dosh in their birth-charts marry someone who is not Mangali, it can cause death of spouse, strife, lack of prosperity and incur many other troubles. Remedies to be performed for Mangal or Mars related problems and during the dasa or antardasa of Mars:
1. Worship the ruling deities Kartikeya and Hanuman.
The Kartikeya mantra: “Om Saravanabhavaya Namah”
The Hanuman mantra: “Om Ham Hanumate Namah”
2. Worship Bagalamukhi Devi with homan and japa.
3. Recite Kartikeya Stotra or Hanuman Chalisa.
4. Japa of the Mars mantra: Om kram kreem kroum sah bhaumaya namah, 7000 times in 40 days.
5. Recite the Mangala stotra.
6. Charity: Donate Masoor dal (red lentils) on Tuesdays.
7. Fasting: On Tuesdays.
8. Pooja: Kartikeya pooja or Rudrabhishekha.
9. Rudraksha: Wear a 3 mukhi Rudraksha.
10. Gemstone: Coral (Moonga)
11. Jadi: Anant Mool

Remedies for Mercury / Budh Graha Shanti

According to Hindu mythology, Budha or Mercury is considered to be the son of Moon. As per Vedic astrology, Mercury is believed to have benefic nature. However, if it conjoins with any malefic planet, it becomes malefic. Budh is the lord of Gemini and Virgo. Budh or Mars depicts intellect, communication, analysis, the senses (especially the skin), science, mathematics, business, education and research etc. The remedies for Budha or Mercury related problems and during his Dasa and Antardasa are as follows:

1. Worship Lord Vishnu.
2. Recite Vishnu sahasranama stotra.
3. Japa of the Budha beeja mantra: Om bram breem broum sah budhaya namah, 17000 times in 40 days.
4. Recite the Budha stotra.
5. Charity: Donate Udad dal on Wednesday.
6. Fasting: On Wednesdays.
7. Pooja: Vishnu pooja.
8. Rudraksha: Wear a 10 mukhi Rudraksha.
9. Jadi: Briddha-darak Mool
10. Gemstone: Emerald

Jupiter Remedies / Guru Graha Shanti

Jupiter is also known as Guru or Brihaspati in Vedic astrology. Hindu scriptures confer him with title of Guru of Gods. Guru or Brihaspat is considered to be the most benefic planet as per Hindu astrology. Jupiter is lord of Sagittarius (Dhanu) and Pisces (Meena). He is believed to be exalted in Cancer and Capricorn. Jupiter or Guru signifies religion, spirituality, philosophy, knowledge and karma etc. Remedies for Guru or Jupiter related problems and during the dasa or antardasa of Guru are as follows:

1. Worship ruling deity Dakshinamurty (for Shaivayats) or Narayan (for Vaishnavas).
2. Recite Shri Rudram.
3. Japa of the Guru beeja mantra: Om gram greem groum sah gurave namah, 16000 times in 40 days.
4. Recite the Guru stotra.
5. Donate: Saffron or turmeric or sugar on Thursdays.
6. Fasting: On Thrusdays.
7. Pooja: Rudrabhishekam.
8. Rudraksha: Wear a 5 mukhi rudraksha.
9. Jadi: Bamanhati or Brahma-jasthi root
10. Gemstone: Yellow sapphire

Venus Remedies / Shukra Graha Shanti

As per Vedic astrology, Shukra or Venus is considered to be a benefic planet by nature. Shukra is the lord of Taurus and Libra signs. In Pisces, it is believed to be exalted and debilitated in Virgo. Venus or Shukra is the significator of love, marriage, art, the opposite sex, artistic talent, music, dances, luxuries and material life etc. Remedies for Shukra or Venus related problems and during the dasa or antardasa of Venus are as follows:

1. Worship ruling deity Goddess Laxmi (Lakshmi).
2. Chant Shukra beeja mantra: Om dram dreem droum sah shukraya namah, 20000 times in 40 days.
3. Recite Shree Sooktam or Devi stuti.
4. Recite the Shukra stotra.
5. Donate clothes or dairy cream or curd to a lady on Friday.
6. Fasting: On Fridays.
7. Pooja: Lakshmi poojan.
8. Wear a 9 mukhi Rudraksha.
9. Jadi: Rambasak root
10. Gemstone: Diamond

Saturn Remedies / Shani Graha Shanti

Saturn or Shani is most dreaded planet. As per Vedic astrology, Shani is believed to be the son of Surya or Sun. Shani is considered to be the strongest malefic and a stern teacher who represents patience, effort, endeavour, and endurance; and who brings restrictions and misfortunes. However, a favourably-placed Shani on the horoscope of a person stands for a strong career, healthy life and everything positive for that person. Shani is believed to be exalted in Libra and debilitated in Aries. Remedies for Shani or Saturn related problems, Sadhe Sati and during the dasa or antardasa of Shani are as follows:

1. Worship Lord Hanuman or Lord Bhairo.
2. Recite Hanuman chalisa or any other Hanuman stotra.
3. Japa of Shani mantra: Om pram preem proum sah shanaischaraya namah, 19000 times in 40 days.
4. Recite the Shani stotra.
5. Donate a buffalo or black til (sesame seeds) on Saturday.
6. Fasting on Saturdays.
7. Pooja: Hanuman pooja.
8. Wear a 14 mukhi Rudraksha.
9. For all Saturn related troubles, Dasharatha Shani Stotra of is an excellent remedy.
10. Jadi: Shwet Berela root
11. Gemstones: Blue-sapphire
12. Perform thilabhishekam on sanitrayodasi, sanijayanthi (pushya masam bahula astami) and saniamavasya days.

Rahu Remedies / Rahu Graha Shanti

According to Vedic astrology, Rahu does not own any sign. It is friends with Saturn, Mercury and Venus. It is neutral towards Mars, Jupiter. It is the enemy of Sun and Moon. It is important to note that Rahu is more inimical to Sun as compared to Moon. For Rahu related problems and during the dasa or antardasa of Rahu:

1. Worship lord Bhairava or lord Shiva.
2. Recite the Rahu stotra.
3. Chant Rahu beeja mantra: Om bhram bhreem bhroum sah rahave namah, 18000 times in 40 days.
4. Recite the Kalabhairav asthakam.
5. Donate: Udad dal or coconut on Saturdays.
6. Fasting on Saturdays.
7. Pooja: Bhairav or Shiva or Chandi pooja.
8. Wear An 8 mukhi Rudraksha.
9. One of the most effective remedies for Rahu is recitation of the first chapter of Durga Saptasati.
10. Jadi: White sandel root(shwet chandan)

Ketu Remedies / Ketu Graha Shanti

As per Vedic astrology, Ketu depicts positive and negative karmic accumulations, spirituality and occultism. Many astrologers believe Ketu as the significator of Moksha or Nirvana. It is considered both malefic and benefic by Vedic astrologers. Remedies for Ketu related problems and during the dasa or antardasa of Ketu:

1. Worship the ruling deity Sri Ganesha.
2. Recite the Ketu stotra everyday.
3. Chant Beeja mantra of Ketu: Om shram shreem shroum sah ketave namah, 7,000 times in 40 days.
4. Recite Ganesha Dwadasanama Stotra.
5. Donation: A black cow (Syama Gaay) or black mustard seeds on Thursday.
6. Fasting: On Thursdays.
7. Wear a 9 mukhi rudraksha.
8. Recitation of Shiva Panchakshari Stotra is also considered a very good remedy for Ketu.
9. Jadi: Ashwagangha tree root
10. Gemstone: Cats eyestone

Miraculous Remedies for Early Marriage

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1. In case of a girl’s marriage getting delayed, make her wear new clothes during marriage talks.
2. If you are short of good proposals to marry off the girl, give her to wear yellow clothes on Thursday and white clothes on Friday. If these clothes are new, that’s better. Do it for 4 weeks and you will surely get good proposals. Therefore, no cloth should be repeated.
3. If marriage negotiation is breaking down repeatedly after reaching final stages, make it a point to put off shoes/slippers before entering the room where talks are taking place.
4. At the moment when bride’s side is entering prospective groom’s household, girl’s parents and other well-wishers should put left or right foot first inside the house, keeping in mind the nostril from which they are breathing.
5. When the parents go for marriage negotiation to groom’s house, girl dhould keep her hair open, not tie them. She should also be happy and offer sweets to them when they start.
6. Boys and girls of marriageable age should put a bit of mehandi meant for bride or groom, whenever they get a chance to attend a marriage ceremony.
7. For early marriage, the girl should keep fast for 16 consecutive Mondays and offer sacred water in a Shiva temple. She should dress up as Goddess Parvati, tie the knot between Shiva and Parvati and pray for early marriage. Marriage proposals will start pouring in.
8. To get her wish for a suitable groom fulfilled, girl should worship Shiva-Parvati and complete one round of following mantra-
ऊँ नमः मनोभिलाषितं वरं देहि वरं ही ऊँ गोरा पार्वती देव्यै नमः”।
9. If one reads verses related to the marriage of Shiva and Parvati in the Balkand of Ramcharit Manas everyday, wishes of early marriage are fulfilled.
10. Marriageable boys and girls should pour sacred water over shivaling and place 108 flowers over it, chanting the mantra Om Namah Shivaya and praying for early marriage, on Fridays. Also offer 21 Belpatras to Lord Shiva. Do it for 7 consecutive Fridays, marriage proposals will start coming in.
11. On Thursdays, offer Kalangi ( Which is there at the top of the ‘Sehra’) in Vishnu Laxmi temple, along with 5 laddoos and pray for quick marriage.
These are very simple measures, which every marriage-wishing individual can do easily. And if he/she does that with devotion and dedication, his wish would be fulfilled. The girl gets married quickly as well. However, if these measures are not able to hasten the process of marriage, it indicates problems with the stars in the horoscope. In that case, following tantric procedure is advised…

Kamdev Rati Yantra
Marriage-wishing boy/girl should procure a Kamdev Rati Yantra. Rise early in the morning, take bath and give ‘arghya’ to Sun God for 7 times and then sit on an asan. Take a wooden cart and establish Kamdev rati Yantra over a new piece of cloth. Worship the Yantra with panchamopachar. Chant the following mantra with devotion for 1lakh and 25 thousand times. If you do it with dedication, proposals should start giving positive signs.

Vivah Badha Niwaran Yantra ( Marriage hindrance removal Yantra)
Those, whose son/daughter is/are of marriageable age, marriage is getting unduly delayed, engagement is broken or there is hindrance in the horoscope, should follow the following tantric procedure. It would hasten the process of marriage. It can be started on a Tuesday. The prospective bride/groom or their parents themselves can do it or can seek the help of a priest. Following articles are needed for it…
• Soubhagya Mala
• Vivah Badha Niwaran Yantra
Rise early in the morning, take bath and sit with a wooden cart in front of you. Put a new piece of cloth over it and establish the Yantra over it. Clean it first with milk and then water, rinse it with a clean piece of cloth. Offer vermillion, flowers and akshat to Yantra.

Offer prayers to the Guru and seek his blessings for the success of the tantric procedure. Take water, flower, akshat in the right hand and utter sankalpa, that you are doing it to erase hinfrances to quick marriage. Do 11 rounds of Soubhagya Mala with the following mantra for 21 days, without any break. After 21 days are completed, put the Yantra and Soubhagya mala in a river/flowing water. The obstructions are erased.
ऊँ हो कामदेवाय रत्यै सर्व दोष निवारणाय फट्”

Durga Saptashati Path
If the Son is not getting married, unexpected obstructions creating problems, do the Dutga Saptashati Mantra with samput.

पत्नि मनोरमां देहि मनोवृत्तानुसारिणीय।
तारिणिं दुर्गासंसार सागरस्य कुलोद्भणामं ।।”

It’s better if the marriage seekers do it themselves, proposals will start coming in. Marriageable girl should sleep in the room where fresh air comes. Obstructions are erased automatically.